Was in another thread and someone said something that made me think....
Do we choose our parents? I think we choose everything....we choose birth and we say yes to our parents...but when we get here we have second thoughts and we think we would never choose these parents. Maybe people choose Cancer, bancrupty, horrible relationships also....we choose what we make active in our vibration. There is no dark switch. Only the light. When you feel like you make bad choices....it's means you're not in alignment with who you really are. If you recognise this the well being is huge and things are always working out for us, to the degree we allow it. Whether we know it or not we are all expanding. We don't have to know about it in order to succeed. If we don't do it while we are alive, this alignment of who we are, we will catch up with it when we die....we can't do it wrong and we can't go back because we know too much.
I hope we all find a way out and into the land of the butterflies.
You are a random shot in the dark......then around the age of 4,5 or 6.....you're body is chosen....."you" chose it.
We just need to define what the "you" is.